Flipping through the channels on my TV, I heard a phrase that got me thinking. There are a lot of phrases that get me thinking, but a lot of them would leave me indifferent later. But this one does not leave me alone. It is bugging me still. It is bugging me, because I know that unfortunately I often have the same thought running through my own head.
Among different things this guy was told was that this girl was a virgin. When he finally got to see her he said, “Whoa! And she is a virgin? What a waste!”
Why? Why do we treat them like that? Why as soon as we see a pretty girl do we float up high into the sexual heaven of our fantasies? Is there a way to avoid objectizing the girls? Somebody give me the eyes to see that there is a beauty outside of my own self!